​DON’T EXPECT PEOPLE TO MEET YOU WHERE YOU ARE AT.  EVERYONE IS DOING THE BEST THEY CAN AT THE LEVEL OF CONSCIOUSNESS THEY ARE AT. OTHERS CAN ONLY ACT ACCORDING TO THEIR LEVEL OF CONSCIOUSNESS.
 
IT MATTERS NOT SO MUCH WHAT YOU THINK, BUT THAT YOU ARE AWARE OF WHAT YOU ARE THINKING AND WHAT REALLY MATTERS IS HOW YOU BEHAVE TOWARDS OTHERS REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU ARE THINKING.
 
NEGATIVITY DOES NOT HAVE ANY INSIGHTFULNESS OTHER THAN TO SHOW YOU WHERE YOU ARE AT VIBRATIONALLY.
 
JUDGMENT IS JUST ANOTHER STEP AWAY FROM YOUR DIVINITY AND
UNDER ALL JUDGMENT IS SHAME.
 
PEOPLE WILL HURT YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE HURTING.
DON’T (PLEASE!!) DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY
AND IF YOU DO…REFER TO PROCESSING
A TRIGGER WORKSHEET. 
 
ANGER REMINDS US OF OUR PERCEPTION OF THE WORLD
UNDERNEATH ANGER IS SELF-HATE.
 
GOD DRESSES UP AS IGNORANT PEOPLE TO AWAKEN YOU.
GOD HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR.
 
MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW HOW TO SEE REALITY AS IT REALLY IS.
PERCEPTION IS A BLINDING VEIL.
 
WHEN YOU RELATE TO SOMEONE ELSE AS SPIRIT,
YOU RELATE TO YOURSELF AS SPIRIT, AND.
BECAUSE YOU ARE OPERATING FROM ANOTHER DIMENSION
A NEW ENERGY CAN COME IN.
 
CONSCIOUSNESS IS LETTING SOMEONE ELSE BE HEARD AND LISTENING WITH NON-JUDGMENT.
 
REMEMBER: NOT EVERYONE IS SCHEDULED TO AWAKEN.
 
PEOPLE ARE UNDER SACRED CONTRACTS NOT TO GIVE YOU THEIR APPROVAL.

YOU MUST GIVE YOURSELF YOUR APPROVAL.
 
EVERYTHING, AND I MEAN EVERYTHING IS HERE TO ASSIST YOU IN THE EVOLUTION OF YOUR SOUL. FIND THE GIFT IN EVERY EXPERIENCE.

​Awakening begins with the realization that we were born into the conditioning of dualistic thinking and our personal lives reflect back to us this dualistic thinking.  Ponder for a moment when you are participating in dualistic thinking and how it prevents you from moving forward in your attempt to rise into higher levels of consciousness. 
 
We say we are on a spiritual journey, we say we are conscious, we say we want to evolve yet we miss one very important aspect of becoming conscious.  The elimination of dualistic thinking.  We judge, “This is good and that is bad.  I am right, and he is wrong.  I am inferior to this person and I am superior to that person.  We have not yet completely opened our minds to accept another way of thinking, another way of being, another way of allowing our lives and our world to be.  We have not yet considered that maybe in the eyes of God, Source, Oneness with all being, there is no right or wrong, no good or bad.  What if all was in Divine order?  A perfect and Divinely executed plan devised for the evolution of each one of our Souls.
 
We must stop and be with the allowing of and the flow of what is happening in our lives exactly the way it is and consider what the purpose of what is happening could be to the evolution of our Souls.  Being with our thoughts, our feelings, our behaviors and just witnessing what goes on in our minds and our hearts.  Being with ourselves on the deepest level.  Getting to know ourselves from the highest place so we can break through some of the unconscious thoughts, words, and actions that we are continuing to put out to the Universe which creates the collective consciousness and the planet we live on.  If we do not come to the conclusion that we are thinking with a dualist mind set which in turn develops into dualistic behaviors, we cannot truly, fully know ourselves and we cannot truly shift the way of thinking on the planet.   
 
This shift takes vigilant supervision of the way we are thinking every minute of the day.  The mind will take you over if you are not privy to its manipulation.  Judging is the perfect example of how the mind takes us over and uses us.  We judge our circumstances at every moment of our lives.  This moment is good, or this moment is bad.  I am feeling good when he or she does this, but I feel bad when he or she does that.  I feel guilty when I don’t behave a certain way.  The mind likes to pretend and trap us into thinking that the outer world can dictate our feelings, dictate our actions.  The truth is that the mind has no power over us other than the power we give it.  Every time it takes us over and we believe it, it (ego) gets stronger and stronger.  The mind cannot dictate our lives unless we give it the power over us by believing what it says, but we haven’t yet gotten to that level of consciousness on this planet because too many of us don’t witness our thoughts. 
 
Look at the following examples of dualistic thinking and notice if you tend to think in similar ways:    
 
You have an argument with a loved one.  You see things your way and they see things their way.  No one is budging on their perspective.  You feel that you are “right”, and you feel that they are “wrong”.  They feel that they are “right”, and they feel that you are “wrong”.  Very very black and white thinking.
 
A loved one is ill with a disease, involved in an addiction, depressed, emotionally suffering, or financially devastated by a job loss.  Whatever the situation; it makes you feel sick to your stomach.  You think that this situation is “bad, horrible, horrendous”.  You feel equally bad and worry yourself to death about it and about their situation.  You go into despair over their well-being.  You desire the situation or the circumstances around this situation to go away.  You think to yourself that things would be “better” if the situation was brought to an end.   
 
You feel that not having a partner to share your life is “bad,” and that makes you feel frustrated, angry, and confused.  You feel “bad” about yourself and you feel like you are a failure.  You think to yourself, if I don’t have someone to share intimacy with, I cannot be “happy.”  You may even think to yourself that I am miserable and sad without a partner or your life is incomplete, and you don’t want to exist unless you have a committed relationship.  
 
You don’t have a job, and to you, that is “bad.”  This makes you feel horrible about yourself and you think to yourself, “I don’t feel valuable if I am not working at a job that pays me a salary.  I must be worthless.”
 
If you resonate with any of these statements, you are in a dualistic trance and you will continue to be trapped in your own suffering.
 
The egoic mind prevents us from seeing the bigger picture of the situation and from the perspective of the Soul.  The Soul of the other and the Soul of yourself.
 
We are blinded by our own narcissistic tendency to immediately judge any situation as bad or good, wrong or right, happy or sad.  Repeatedly thinking to yourself, I don’t have a partner to share my life and this is the worst thing that could happen to a human being is judging something as bad before even considering why it just is or why it just is not at the moment.  We resist the ability to remain neutral to the circumstances AND this exact tendency creates the perpetual loop that continues the situation we call “bad” in the first place. 
 
Become aware when you are judging something as good or bad.  This alone will shift your consciousness. 
 
For example:  If you are compelled in one way or another to judge the Politics of the United States, good or bad, be open to seeing it another way.
Be open to allowing a more neutral position to open up inside you.  Experience non-judgment of the political climate at the moment.  When we view something from a neutral, divinely ordered perspective, we can experience an entirely new light from which to view the situation.  New revelations, fresh perspectives can ignite!  Can you feel that?  It is light.  It is whole.  It is sacred.  Way different than, “I am stuck in my blind mentality and cannot see past my egoic perspective of reality therefore I must prove that I am right in my view of politics.”
 
We, individually and collectively attract and pull in to our being the perfect situations and circumstances to assist us in our growth and evolutionary process.  Our vibrational frequency and light quotient dictate this process.
This is the reason certain things affect you much differently than they affect me.  Quite simply, something that affects you on a deep level is meant for you and that is the reason it is affecting you and something that affects me is meant for me and my emotional growth and that is the reason it is affecting me in such a way.  We must become aware of this phenomenon of perception and how our personal perception of a situation is based on what we need to grow at any given moment.  Who are we to judge?  Who are we to assume to know the bigger picture? Nothing should be judged because it already is and that makes is unnecessary of judgment.  Judging hinders the solution and the evolution of the situation.         
 
This new way of being that I am suggesting brings in another dimension of thinking about life in general.  This way of perceiving reality opens up the door to a higher way of being on the planet that flows with reality as opposed to against reality.  This manner of living opens the heart chakra of humanity in a way that can shift the collective.  I invite you to open your heart to living a non-dualistic life and committing to it in all aspects of your life including judgments of people, situations, your life, and yourself.  
 
 

​DON’T EXPECT PEOPLE TO MEET YOU WHERE YOU ARE AT
 
IT MATTERS NOT SO MUCH WHAT YOU THINK, BUT THAT YOU ARE AWARE OF WHAT YOU ARE THINKING AND WHAT REALLY MATTERS IS HOW YOU BEHAVE TOWARDS OTHERS REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU ARE THINKING
 
NEGATIVITY DOES NOT HAVE ANY INSIGHTFULNESS OTHER THAN TO SHOW YOU WHERE YOU ARE AT VIBRATIONALLY
 
JUDGMENT IS JUST ANOTHER STEP AWAY FROM YOUR DIVINITY
UNDER ALL JUDGMENT IS SHAME
 
PEOPLE WILL HURT YOU BECAUSE THEY ARE HURTING
DON’T (PLEASE!!) DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY
AND IF YOU DO…REFER TO PROCESSING
A TRIGGER WORKSHEET  
 
ANGER REMINDS US OF OUR PERCEPTION OF THE WORLD
UNDERNEATH ANGER IS SELF-HATE
 
GOD DRESSES UP AS IGNORANT PEOPLE TO AWAKEN YOU
GOD HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR
 
MOST PEOPLE DON’T KNOW HOW TO SEE REALITY AS IT REALLY IS
PERCEPTION IS A BLINDING VEIL
 
WHEN YOU RELATE TO SOMEONE ELSE AS SPIRIT,
YOU RELATE TO YOURSELF AS SPIRIT
BECAUSE YOU ARE OPERATING FROM ANOTHER DIMENSION
A NEW ENERGY CAN COME IN
 
CONSCIOUSNESS IS LETTING SOMEONE ELSE BE HEARD AND LISTENING WITH NON-JUDGMENT
 
REMEMBER: NOT EVERYONE IS SCHEDULED TO AWAKEN
 
PEOPLE ARE UNDER SACRED CONTRACTS NOT TO GIVE YOU THEIR APPROVAL
YOU MUST GIVE YOURSELF YOUR APPROVAL
 
EVERYTHING AND I MEAN EVERYTHING IS HERE TO ASSIST YOU IN THE EVOLUTION OF YOUR SOUL.  YOU MAY HAVE TO LOOK DEEPER.  

​In the eyes of your Soul, there is no such thing as “good” or “bad.”  In the eyes of God, it is all good, meaningful and perfectly in Divine order.  Everything serves a Divine and perfect purpose, whether we acknowledge it or not.  Perceiving life through the eyes of your Soul allows you to take in life from this higher perspective.  A Master perceives life and life’s lessons as a tool to evolve, to become more present within, a means to transcend the mind (ego) and its illusion of separateness.  The personality perceives life from the view point of the ego or victim mentality and allows itself to be “weakened” by life and life’s situations.
 
Ultimately, one wants to be guided by the Soul or Monad (the Soul family) and not run by the personality. To be the master of your thoughts and emotions means not denying you have a negative thought or negative emotion, but recognizing them for what they are just thoughts and emotions.  By not taking them on, buying into them, and allowing them to run you, you transcend them. 
 
There is nothing “wrong” or “bad” about crying when you’re sad, hurt, or lonely.  The key is to acknowledge the pain or the suffering and step out of it, see it from a larger perspective.  Look at the entire situation from the perspective of your Soul.  We are able to transcend painful emotions when we recognize that they are created in the mind and not due to anything going on in the outside world.  Perception is the key. We have been given the ability to reason and free will to decide how we choose to perceive any situation at any moment.  
 
A trap many face on the spiritual journey is denying our thoughts and feelings.  When we get to the point where we know that a negative thought or a negative emotion will create further pain and suffering, we either beat ourselves up for having them or we try to stuff those thoughts and feelings down saying they are “bad” or “I don’t want to feel that way.  Stuffing down the negative thoughts and feelings is like pouring toxic chemicals into your body. 
 
Eventually those feelings will fester and develop into anger.  Anger turned inward becomes depression or illness.  
 
In order to transcend negative thoughts and emotions, we must acknowledge them, give them value and the attention they deserve and crave.  They are bubbling up from a place of wounding that is begging to be healed.  Unconditional love for oneself means recognizing and loving all aspects of our self, just like the Divine unconditionally loves all aspects of us, the “good” and the “bad”.  Once we have unconditional love and compassion for ourselves, we can in turn truly have unconditional love and compassion for others, but it starts with ourselves. 
 
Perceiving ourselves from the viewpoint of our Soul allows us freedom from judgment. When we stop judging ourselves, we will stop judging everyone, and we will stop judging life as “bad” or “good” and just see life for what it is; a place for the evolution of our Soul.  We are not our mind.  We are not our personality.  We have never been victims nor will be ever be victims.  It is all about perception.  Use life as a catalyst for the evolution of your Soul. 
 
Every lesson, every trauma, every pain is a new step on the ladder towards growth and new chance to strengthen, empower, and become the master of your experience.  View every experience as a blessing in disguise; welcome it in as if you chose it.  Eventually the negative thought will arise; you will be able to see it for what it is and not buy into it.  Feelings will not follow it because you will be alert enough to transcend it and maybe even laugh at it.  At that point, your outer world will begin to reflect your inner world, which will be peaceful and harmonious.

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​The realization that there is a higher path for humanity at this time has come to fruition.  We are at a pivotal point in the evolutionary process where conscious choice is imperative.  Choice is everything. Choice is our path to power.  We are constantly being presented with choices.  We are consistently being offered situations and circumstances where we are being given a choice to either dwell in the lower levels of fear and darkness or take the high road which leads to our hearts opening up to more light.  The realization that there is a higher choice in every moment is one of the keys to ascension in this lifetime on this path (that we have chosen).
 
It is so simple, yet every day we make the same choices over and over unaware that this is what keeps us stuck in the never ending cycle of guilt, pain, worry, anxiety, and fear.  
 
We settle for the more appealing lure of the easy way, the comfortable way, taking the path that keeps us limited because at the moment the higher choice would take too much effort and require too much strength and fortitude that your ego would love for you believe you don’t have.   
 
We cannot allow the shadow self to envelop us in darkness any longer.  This is the darkness that continues to hold us to at a lower level of consciousness.  Choosing our own higher good is not always as fun or appealing to the ego when presented with such tempting opportunities that are available in the outside world.
 
Recognize when you are sinking into lower level thoughts, the lower mind, or the negative wounded ego.  You know what those thoughts are for you.  Watch them; become aware of them.  They are different for each one of us.  We all have the wherewithal at this point to see “choice points” very clearly.  We now have the clarity.  We are awake.  The shadow has nowhere to hide at this point.  The light of the Universe is so bright at this time in our existence that we almost have to fight the light in order to choose darkness.